WhattypeofDivorceisrightforyo u?

Divorce is an emotional and confusing time in your life. Statistics show that one in every two marriages end in divorce so you can rest assured you are not alone and not the only failed marriage in the world. Divorce has become a reality in the past twenty to thirty years. Some experts believe that divorce has been on the rise since the women’s liberation movement and continues to rise as women narrow the equality gap between women and men. Another opinion would be that society has moral issues and divorce is now acceptable in society the same way sex and violence is accepted in movies and on the streets. Sometimes it is much simplier than any of the opinions given by experts and doctors. You have to remember that no one gets married believing they will get a divorce. Sometimes we just grow apart, stop getting along, or simply fall out of love. I cannot tell you why the divorce rate is so high. I can , however, educate you on the different types of divorce to help you determine your next step in the divorce process.

Limited Divorce

If you wish to end your marriage but do not have the grounds for an absolute divorce (the total dissolusion of a marriage) then the Court may issue a limited divorce which is basically referred to as a separation. A limited divorce gives you and your partner time to determine solutions to issues such as child custody, health insurance, division of property alimony, child support, etc. before your separation is finalized. During a limited divorce or separation you and your spouse must live apart and cannot have sexual relations with each other or with others. Some states have a mandatory separation period whereas some states allow a divorce without a specified period of separation. Limited divorce or separation also gives a couple an opportunity to determine whether a finalized divorce is what is right for them.

Fault Divorce

A fault divorce is exactly what it sounds like. Either you or your spouse are at fault for the dissolusion of your marriage. The most common grounds for divorce are adultery, physical or mental cruelty, desertion, confinement in prison, physical incapacity (for the purpose of sexual intercourse) and incurable insanity. Grounds for divorce vary by state. Most states still allow fault divorces however no-fault divorce is another option.

No Fault Divorce

If neither partner seeks to place blame on the other, i.e.